I used to think that losing yourself when you love someone was a bad thing, as if my whole existence was meaningless and my purpose somehow void... but, I've come to realise this is not the case.
Even if you go through life only ever meeting one person who you feel utterly complete with, you will never lose yourself, it's more a case of gaining another part of you, an extra advantage to living. When you breath you breath together, synchronised.
That person can make your world colourful, and while aspects of yourself change to a minor extent, the overall picture is breath taking. So if you do know someone who adds that bit of colour to your life, tell them.
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