Help To People Trying To Get Over Someone

Get over Them. They aren't even worth it. They are not worth your time or your tears. Yea you loved them, I know that. And I know you just can’t see yourself with anyone other than them, I get that. I’ve been there. But why should you spend all your time sitting at home, bawling your eyes out and wondering where they are and who they're with. Do you honestly think they're thinking about you? No. Sure it hurts, the fact that they're out there falling in and out of love with other people. Yea your gonna see them with one of they're new girl or boyfriends. Prepare yourself, cuz straight up; its gonna hurt. They will hold them a little closer and squeeze their hand a little tighter just because they knows your watching. They knows its killing you; that’s why they'll do it. Don’t let them get to you because that, well that’s exactly what they want. Don’t give them what they want. They doesn’t even deserve it. So what if they don't talk to you; do you honestly wanna be friends with an ***hole like them anyways? Thing is I know you still do. But give it time. Because all they would do is talk about their new girlfriend or boyfriend and just try and make you jealous, do you really wanna hear that? No. Screw them and their girlfriend or boyfriend. They will be sorry. Trust me. When they finally see you with some other guy or girl who’s not them. With that huge grin on your face and your boyfriend or girlfriend holding you close, they will realise how happy you are now. And how happy your boyfriend or girlfriend is because they has you; the girl or boy of their dreams. They will realize the huge mistake they made when they let you go, when they decided to choose them over you. When they decided they just did not love you the same. Trust me, they will be sorry. And don’t you sit there thinking they won't be sorry I know you are. But I guarantee you now; They will be sorry. So don’t go on spending your nights waiting for that one phone call you know your never gonna get. Or that Message you know they will never send you simply because they like to ignore you. They like to pretend they do not see you online, they do it outta spite just because they knows its killing you. When they walk past you in the hallways they are gonna look past you, but you need to know they will do that cuz they knows somewhere inside you, it will hurt. I ain’t gonna lie to you. It will hurt. It’ll hurt alot. But it will hurt even more when you see her or his name and how much he or she loves her in his or hers profile. Its all gonna hurt. Knowing your not the girl or boy that’s making them smile. Knowing your not the first person they think of when they wake up and the last before they go to sleep. Knowing your not the face on their background of their phone anymore. Knowing if they haven't already they will delete the album of pictures of you they have on their phone. Knowing you wont be spending every single moment possible with them. Knowing there’s not gonna be no more late night phone calls arguing about who loves who the most. And you know what, today, tomorrow, next week, months from now; your phone will go off with a text message, you will instantly grab your phone hoping its them saying they want to give your relationship another shot. But trust me; they've got too much pride. Even if they wanted to be back with you, they wouldn’t tell you. Your soon gonna realise they don't care about you anymore and they wont be the first person you call when your upset. They wont be the one to put that smile back on your face. And yea its gonna hurt; its gonna hurt alot. But you know what your gonna do? Your gonna hold your head up. Your gonna show them your better than them and you don’t need them in your life. Your gonna prove to them that.