Bygones Be Bygones

Was just having a pillow-talk via Whatsapp with my girlfriend about boys and chocolates. I was reminiscing about all the good times I had with the infamous Ex. She was surprised and wondered if I was still hurting. Well truth be told, it still hurts thinking about him though it has been months; however I then realised something else. It has become easier to reminisce about the good times about the romantic past being OUT of the relationship than reminiscing about it whilst still being IN it. I used to be so angry and vengeful thinking how we d lost the spark when I was in the relationship, and often blamed his mistakes for losing US. It is still his mistakes that broke us apart, but its cause played by myself too, so I made peace with that.