28 May 2012
So recently i've discovered that one of my friends have been lying to me, not just about one thing but many. It's hard when someone breaks your trust you don't know how to react at first. There's always that awkward stage of 'should I confront them, but I'll feel bad' and then 'never mind they'll get better I time'- bit they don't. They just carry one lying and adding to previous lies that their unimaginative mind has created. It's frustrating.
I hate losing friends, but is someone that constantly lies to your face really a friend? Do they really care about you? Or are they just trying to boost their image? All these questions confuse me further.
I've never been good at trusting people, I don't know why, it's not like I've been abandoned by my parents or anything, I just have a hard time trusting people. I could defiantly never trust someone who i've known for a short time. And once you've gained that trust to trick the person and give them this false sense of security is the worst thing you could do; epically to someone like me. It's terrible.
The only question remaining is what do I do? Do I tell then that I know they've been lying and to stop it?- but will I ever really trust them again? Do I stop being friends with them? - i hate losing friend. Or do I just ignore it and let them get away with it? - which would mean I would never really trust them, they would think that lying is a great thing to do, and will carry on doing so not just to me but many others too.
Liars • Opuss № I