16 December 2012
My aunt sent me this on my Fb Mail, I just read it when I juuuuuustt got back from a very dear friend's wedding reception...I cried so hard coz it really did hit me hard...
Aunt: "Been wanting to pass this to u, give it a thought love..."
Aunt: ...something that I read somewhere
Dump him 'IF'...
# COMMITMENT is a DIRTY word
"When he thinks u r great but he's not ready for marriage. He can't say & he doesn't want to think it right now or later or ever."
Aunt: My dear... You deserve a partner who loves & respect u enough to include u in his life & his plans. If u hv bn together for more than a few years then that really is long enough for him to decide whether he wants a future with u.
Whatever his problem is, the bottom line is, he will never b able to gv u the stability & closeness u crave for, you will end up hanging on to him on a limbo only to find out (when its too late) that when it comes to the crunch, he walks away & you'll end up wasting years on a guy who wasn't even worth it n was only killing time with u all the while...
A Message That Hit Me Like 'Sandy' • Opuss № I