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Here's the deal, I really like this guy who I've been crushing on for ages, and am planning on asking him out. But how? I don't just want to pop the question out if the blue. What else could I say though, I don't want to go OTT!! Please like, comment, REPOST!!!

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You could have a friend ask him out for you

That way you won't feel too embarrassed by asking home

*him

The other thing to do is to try making him think it was his idea. That way he can't say no

@Davedave16 hmm ok. I did think about getting a friend to do it but I've done that before and they've thought it was a joke. Thank you very much for the advice though!! 😘☺

What are you like wen ur embarrased? Do you get embarrased easily? What kind of guy is he? Is he already a friend? When you planning to ask him? 😘

Write a note?

You could say a group of you are going into town and would he like to join you? Arrange this with your friends first, but if he says yes, break off from your friends for a while... Hope this helps! Cx

@minxyMolly I get embarrassed really easily!! And go bright red....😳. He's a nice guy, slightly rebellious but I think if he said no he'd do it in a nice way. Unfortunately We are not really friends at the moment, I have admired him from afar.

And want to ask him ASAP, I was thinking of tomorrow morning as he usually arrives early and I could do it before too many people were around.

What do you think? πŸ˜˜πŸ’™πŸ˜

@Janflower hmm......

@Petitpois22 great idea! Thank you. 😘☺❀

@Janflower I know exactly what you mean about admiration from afar! Perhaps it would be best to get talking to him first? If you really want to go for it though, you could ask him to meet you after class and say the thing from my previous post? Hope this helps! Xx

@Janflower fair enough, there are times wen we just say fuck it and do it, with love comes pain so be aware he might so no, though I doubt and hope not you seem like a lovely girl ☺😘

@Janflower another possibility is getting one of his friends to do it

@minxyMolly aww thank u! I have a feeling that he knows I like him so figured that if he said yes, all the tension would go as I would know he felt the same way. If not then Ahh well, that's that!

Good luck! Just be optimistic and believe in yourself! πŸ€

@Petitpois22 lol! Yeah... Thank you so much!!

@Davedave16 true!! That's a good idea! 😊

@Janflower if you do ask him out and he says yes, make sure you don't blend into his world so you become a background figure. He needs to see you for you and no-one else

You're welcome! Go for it! πŸ˜‰πŸ€Xx

@Janflower your very mature about this, and dating is just getting to know each other closer 😘

@minxyMolly yeah, your right! Thanks for the amazing advice 😘😊

@Janflower no problem, Hun always here to help 😘

@minxyMolly @Petitpois22 @Davedave16 I'll tell you all how it goes tomorrow. Thank you!!! πŸ˜˜β˜ΊπŸ‘πŸ’“

@Janflower no problems, hope it goes well for you 😘

@Janflower good luck

@minxyMolly @Davedave16 I agree good luck Im sure he will say yes! XxπŸ€

Not great at advice about stuff like this, but good luck!! Hope it all goes okay!!! :)

Thank you!!! 😊

Great advice from everyone, have confidence and be yourself πŸ˜›@Janflower

@LivvyBlueEyes thank you! I'll try my best... 😳😊😘

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I been here this whole time now I'm here girl

@LivvyBlueEyes @Bluegerbil @Petitpois22 @Davedave16 @minxyMolly I did it today and he is now 'thinking about it'. I think it went alright but it definitely didn't go as planned!

@Janflower what happened Hun?

@Janflower bad outcome. I think that means he's gonna find out more about you via his friends and yours, then create his own idea if what your like outside of school. It might go well but it might not. It all depends on what he finds out

@minxyMolly WELL without telling me my friends told him I wanted to talk to him so he came up to me. They then all ran away so I was alone with him and I was well confused so kinda blurted it out! Awkward silence so I said that he didn't have to answer now and he said he'd think about.... It sounds bad doesn't it!!!! 😱 have

(don't know why it says have at the end of that)

@Davedave16 yeah!! Your really good at this you could totally be like an agony uncle or something

@Janflower it's not bad, just be careful that he doesn't drag 'I still need time to think' on for long time, but apart from that wooo am happy for you πŸ˜„ my fingers are crossed for you 😘

@minxyMolly I agree! Hopefully this is a good sign, but don't be disheartened if he says no! But from what I have read I don't think this will be the case! Cx

@Janflower uh...thanks? I just have this awkward talent where I can just work out what people are thinking and try to understand what's going on. Apparently my friends thinks its really annoying cos I know what they're thinking and they're thought processes. I can kinda relate to any problem because if this.

@Janflower still, here's hoping for the best

@Janflower hi how did it go? Has he got back to you yet? Hope he said yes! Xx

@Petitpois22 thanks but no luck yet. Have heard him and his friends talking about it though so at least I know he hasn't forgotten... 😳.

Hope he gets back to you soon! Its not fair to keep you eaitong

Sorry, my ipod just prematurely died! I meant to say, its not fair to keep you waiting, but when the right one say yes it will be worth it! Xx

@Petitpois22 lol thanks for the ever loyal support!! You are so kind. 😘❀😊

Oh no probs! Xx

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