So it seems that so often I react to others based on how/what they're projecting themselves. I assume they're always 'right' and I'm the one with the issue...someone once asked me "when are you going to stop taking on board the other persons emotional position as your own?"
Stand back for a minute and ask yourself what is going on with them? Could there be a reason for their default reactions/interactions? The reality is that one person is inevitably made up of experiences and interactions and that is what shapes the way we are and how we behave. Once we pick that apart a little, your heart ends up taking over the understanding that is usually the default role of your brain. Suddenly your world is blown wide open as you see that everyone is as fragile as the next and in fact we all need a little, if not a lot, of compassion. Even the 'strongest' of people.
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