30 April 2012
...with an alcoholic dad when you're a girl and 16.
Problem:
He comes home midnight, drunk, knocks on your door(banging it, he makes sure you can hear it) and wants cigarette although he knows you don't smoke - he just doesn't really believe you. You have to get up 5am in the morning to go to school, all you want to do is to sleep...
Solution: Just give him your cigarette from your hiding place.
If you really don't smoke and your boyfriend also didn't leave some cigarettes there (how silly he didn't see it'll happen!!), well... that sucks!! Then all you can do is telling him: you can't help him. Sadly, that won't help you neither... If you try shouting at him-telling the facts you don't have cigarettes and that you have to get up early-that also won't help. Only you'll know he thinks you're a little slut(thanks, dad!).
What you shouldn't do: Seek and Destroy!!! (yeah, Metallica rocks) Do not kick your wardrobe until its door falls down, that won't help you giving out your anger, it will just make you more and more aggressive! (and you'll have a fucked up wardrobe as well...)
How to cope with Daddy: Move out as soon as you can and make sure you only see him twice a year!
How to cope... • Opuss № I