The Short Truth About Judgement

Here's the deal: the more you judge others, the more you will judge yourself.

And this goes for pretty much everything.
The more you hurt people, the more you will hurt yourself. The more you hide from other people, the more you will end up hiding from yourself.

So it shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone: the happier, nicer, open and more genuine you are to other people, the happier, nicer, open and more genuine you will be with yourself. When you start focusing on what's good in people, you will start to focus on what's good with yourself.

So don't just treat others how you want them to treat you.
Treat others how you want you to treat yourself.