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Compassion And Forgiveness

This is for all the bruised and battered souls that roam here among us.
Their anguished hearts of fury can cause such a fuss.

I struggle with one of these broken spirits, my family she has shattered.
A sister in law whose twisted reality has left us bruised and battered.

It's so hard to muster compassion when bad behavior creates a curfuffel.
I try hard to consider the fear and demons that propel their hearts to tussle.

Do the little tricks these anguished ones employ to reconcile their plight, bring some measure of peace to tame their heightened sense of fright?

I do feel compassion for my sister in law who must harbor a great deal of fear. But I do not think I can forgive what she's done, it caused too many tears.

I struggle with this paradox of compassion without forgiveness.
And think I somehow must be lacking this ability within my breast.

For if I truly have compassion, why then does not forgiveness follow?
Am I just deluding myself and this compassion is really just hollow?

And what of forgiveness? What exactly does this entail?
Does it mean we allow them back into our lives, hoping for peace to no avail?

What makes these hurt and anguished souls lash out with venom and hate?
And at what cost to our sense of peace and calm will forgiveness take?

Perhaps forgiveness means we let go of anger at the wrongs we have endured.
Hoping the best for them, and that one day.....
their suffering will be cured.

ckahn

@ckahn

A girl.

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Comments & Feedback (17)

I think without letting go of the anger it's impossible to really forgive, on a personal level I don't like harbouring negative feelings and always try to deal with them, a very interesting write 💞❇

👍very insightful👏 with empathy comes healing.. Or at least the ability to understand

@sjw yes. I'm really struggling with this. Its been 5 years since my sister in law decided to wage some weird war against me out of nowhere. Caused a lot of family strife that's still not healed.

@Burrfoot the ability to understand makes dealing with other peoples shenanigans easier that's for sure.

@Burrfoot thank you for the RP💐

I guess it would be easier to move on if she was no longer in your life , but being your sister-in-law makes things slightly more complicated I'm guessing.

Yeah, I tried several times to reach out in the beginning but I have it on good authority that Italians hold a mean grudge. Just wish I knew what it was about. Ah well, the stuff of life right? 😉

@sjw @ckahn Yes, I think the first step of forgiveness has to be dropping the burden of carrying a grudge. A grudge, as they say, is like drinking poison in hopes the other person will die. But it's also like a backpack that we carry so constantly we forget it's even there, until we finally set it down and feel 50 pounds lighter. Some people of course, carry grudges to the grave, which will weigh them like an anchor if they ever hope for anything higher. Whatever you do, don't be one of those, even if your sister-in-law insists on it for herself. There are some dares you do not want to match.

@VikingHorn totally agree, I hate carrying that type of burden it's not healthy 😒

Really love this such an emotive write...you have to sometimes let things go as otherwise it'll eat you up...you become a bitter and angry person...it takes a special person to be able to let it go....it's a very oppressive and heavy load to have to carry...brilliant piece my lovely😘😘😘

@misslittleDHP thank you 💐you are so right. Thanks for the RP my friend😌

Feel for you on this one...had an incident recently with my sister in law, which has rocked the boat big style😠😔 I've made a decision though, that I'm not going to let it affect me-she's really not deserving of that. I hope, in time, things get easier for you. Remember 'For every 60seconds that you're sad, you lose a minute of happiness'. Not my words, but so very accurate😘

Ahhh, you too. In reflecting, it's my brother I really harbor anger for. Expected more from him. Good luck with your situation! 💐

At the end of the day some people are just like that who knows why. Great write as always 😜

@glen yes, it sucks to have to had such a destructive force in our family 😢.

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@RichWithey thank you Rich. Yes. It's been tough. My brother and I have always gotten along until she came along and started fanning the flames of sibling rivalry. Guess that's how it worked in her family.

@RichWithey thanks for the RP my friend 😘💐💐

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