Have you ever bitched before? Uhm......my guess is yes , yes you have. We can all admit we have done it at least once in our lives. But who is the main convict of it all....GIRLS!
Girls are known for being bitchy, and it's true. When I use the word I hate I use it strongly, I hate bitching.
It has no true use. Okay let's put it down to this.
The advantages of bitching....
1. It makes you get something off your chest, possibly makes you feel good about yourself.
2. .....Yep that's all what it's pretty much used for. To make the bitch feel better about themselves. So it's pretty much a selfish action.
The disadvantages...
1. You hurt others.
2. You have no right to make other feel bad, in some cases it has left to death. In less severe cases it has lead people to become anorexic, obese,conscious, doubtful,pessimists and to cut themselves , and these are just several results.
3. You never know a persons true story to what your bitching about.
Example: A girl has bought a new pair of shoes, they may be cheap to some ,but it's all she can afford and she worked long hours just to show them off. You then come along , you look down on her simply because she can't afford the latests trends. You spread what you think to others, it spreads quietly , all that girl can see is silent whispers and glaring eyes at her. She becomes paranoid, scared and conscious. She just wants to hide and run away from all the talking , about her.
In this point of the situation it would be better to just tell the person you don't like them instead of telling everyone else but her. But really if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything.
4. It wreaks not just the victims head in but the convicts friends. Having to listen to the constant bitching can hurt a lot.
5. Going to an all girl school can have its advantages but the main disadvantage is BITCHING! Im not a victim nor performer of this dreadful art. Im the one who tries to stop it , not just for the victims sake but for the people having to listen. It drives us all up the wall.
Girls ...why do you feel the need to bitch?
Just because one said something bad about you doesn't mean you need to hurt her back. What comes around goes around, don't fight fire with fire, it doesn't even out. Someone has to neutralise it and be the water.
Bitching should be a sinful act.
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