Because I never had anyone there for me when I was younger! Let me back up a little I give advice, my heart is so big & I don't judge people because there was nobody there for me with such an open mind when i was younger! I dont really give advice to guys cus dudes normally dont come up to me asking for it but if one did id be happy to give him some of my insight! I think its healthy to discuss ALL problems with someone close to you & someone that you dont no personally at all, because your bestfriend, sister, brother, mother or father may be biased towards the situation I actually think its best to talk to someone with more of an open mind because theyll give you all sides of an argument whereas someone close to you may not in fear it may hurt your feelings! People who give out advice have to understand that the truth does hurt but not knowing hurts even more, when you find out something you have what I like to call closure! When I was younger & I was trying to find myself there was no male or female figure MY AGE that understood what I was going through, so id be struggling by myself. Of course I had my mom but she would always say "oh honey we all have been thru this its" "just a stage" & majority of the time when a child hears that they just turn their back & say the don't understand! So I make myself available to ANYONE who needs advice or insight on any situation, I'm no Dr. Phil because hes judgmental but I will tell you how I feel about it& what I think is the best way to deal with whatever your situation is, but please remember that I am here to TRY & help you & these are MY THOUGHTS so you may not agree with them completely but then again you did come to me for help, so im just doing the best I can to ease your mind & heart. Ive never been in a violent relationship, ive never put my hands on a woman or had a girlfriend die but if thats your problem just because I havent been thru it doesnt mean i can help you overcome the pain & hurt you feel within. I dont do this for attention I do this because everyone needs someone to talk to, no matter how HARD, MANLY pr INDEPENDENT you think you are, you still need someone to vent too! I do this because I dont want anyone to walk away from someone saying "ugh they just dont understand"
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