Confusion Is Taking Over..

velvetkisses • 19 followers

Okay, so this guy I like.. We speak everyday now over BBM and I can talk to him really easily and have a laugh and a joke with him but he's also good at sharing problems. When I see him at school though, he wont look at me nor will he speak to me. We walk back the same way from school and he'll ask me how I am but I can't find the words to say when I'm around him so I just say 'hi'. I reckon he thinks I'm really stupid and uncool but he insists this isn't the case.

My friends say he likes me because he called me beautiful and keeps making an effort to speak to me. He seems interested in me over phone but at school it's like he couldn't care less. He's told all his friends about me liking him and now they keep taking the mickey out of me and chanting his name when we're around each other. Does that mean he isn't embarrassed by me?

He seems like an awkward person in person and I don't know how to speak to him if he ever tries to talk to me? He will always use my name if he asks me if I'm okay in person too. He's also very flirtatious over BBM but that could just be his personality.

Anyone who is good at reading boys, help me? I'm so confused by his behaviour and need to know the truth. Thank you!

Velvet x x

#communication-struggles #crush #general #high-school #social-dynamics #teenage-romance

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Petitpois22

Nov 14, 2012 at 6:52 PM

Its seems he really likes you, but is not confident enough to talk to you face to face- he could be working up the courage to do this by texting? He probably finds it easier to text than talk because neither of you can see each others reactions... But perhaps you could mention how you are feeling when you next text? Hope it all works out for you, good luck! Xx

Burrfoot

Nov 14, 2012 at 7:01 PM

What age is he? In a lot of boys (most) of a certain age, they want a girlfriend but not necessarily during school time or when with their mates.. His desire to be one of the boys is conflicting with his thoughts of you.. And he definitely likes you

Janflower

Nov 14, 2012 at 7:02 PM

Well it sounds good! Maybe referring to something you both laughed about on BBM in person could break the ice as by the sounds of it there is some chemistry there. The fact that he knows that you like him and is still flirting might mean that he feels the same but wants you to make the first move, he sounds shy. Just try to relax is he approaches you and concentrate on being friendly rather than flirty until you become confident around him. I hope this helps and just be yourself! 😊