Okay so I need your opinion on this. So basically over the past few weeks my boyfriend, Caine, has been drifting away from me, and the only time he wants to see me is when his friends are there... His friends are okay I guess but I think they are a bad influence on him, but I know that I can't make him pick new friends. I'm the sort of girl who doesn't like to get hurt. I love him, I really do. But he wears me as a sort of trophy and I don't like that. When I'm with him and his mates he continually tries to keep kissing me and cuddling me, which is not like him at all as he has never been clingy. I don't know what he has been telling his friends we do together, but from what I can gather its a load of fake lies to make them jealous... They snigger at me when I walk past and it's almost as if they are looking for something, this makes me really uncomfortable. My friends keep telling me to finish it as they can see that I'm uncomfortable. When I'm sat with my friends talking about stuff girls talk about, Caine almost always comes over a makes me go sit with him and his friends. If I say no then he just drags me there, actually drags me me. He is quite rough with me as well. Not in the way your probably thinking, but he pushes and pulls me everywhere. There's no hand on the waist, holding hands or arm round shoulder. I really don't know what to do! Matt, Bex's brother, is friends with Caine and is always trying to talk me in to breaking up with him.. It's almost as if he wants me to, not for me but for him.
I like Matt, don't get me wrong. And at least if he does like me, he is keeping it to himself. I think of Matt as a really good friend and riding companion. Matt is 1 year older than me but he is 17 because his birthday is in April and mines in July. People always say that older boys treat you better.
I really don't know what to do! I'm stuck between two boys both whom I love. One in love love way and one in friendly way. Got any ideas?! Because I really need to sort this but if I finish with Caine, I don't want to run up to Matt and be all loved up with him, cuz that's just wrong. But please any ideas on what to do, please say! I really don't mind what opinion you have on this to be honest. Please help.
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