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Boyfriend Trouble.....

Okay so I need your opinion on this. So basically over the past few weeks my boyfriend, Caine, has been drifting away from me, and the only time he wants to see me is when his friends are there... His friends are okay I guess but I think they are a bad influence on him, but I know that I can't make him pick new friends. I'm the sort of girl who doesn't like to get hurt. I love him, I really do. But he wears me as a sort of trophy and I don't like that. When I'm with him and his mates he continually tries to keep kissing me and cuddling me, which is not like him at all as he has never been clingy. I don't know what he has been telling his friends we do together, but from what I can gather its a load of fake lies to make them jealous... They snigger at me when I walk past and it's almost as if they are looking for something, this makes me really uncomfortable. My friends keep telling me to finish it as they can see that I'm uncomfortable. When I'm sat with my friends talking about stuff girls talk about, Caine almost always comes over a makes me go sit with him and his friends. If I say no then he just drags me there, actually drags me me. He is quite rough with me as well. Not in the way your probably thinking, but he pushes and pulls me everywhere. There's no hand on the waist, holding hands or arm round shoulder. I really don't know what to do! Matt, Bex's brother, is friends with Caine and is always trying to talk me in to breaking up with him.. It's almost as if he wants me to, not for me but for him.

I like Matt, don't get me wrong. And at least if he does like me, he is keeping it to himself. I think of Matt as a really good friend and riding companion. Matt is 1 year older than me but he is 17 because his birthday is in April and mines in July. People always say that older boys treat you better.

I really don't know what to do! I'm stuck between two boys both whom I love. One in love love way and one in friendly way. Got any ideas?! Because I really need to sort this but if I finish with Caine, I don't want to run up to Matt and be all loved up with him, cuz that's just wrong. But please any ideas on what to do, please say! I really don't mind what opinion you have on this to be honest. Please help.

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Firstly I think you need to sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him properly, just one to one, tell him how you feel and how he makes you feel uncomfortable. You need to explain to him that is he doesn't change something it won't work between you (if that's how you feel) and that you are prepared to work with him to make these changes.m, then take it from there, that's my opinion anyway (: โค good luck, x

Please excuse the poor spelling and random letters, it's very late here :/ x

@madaboutmarinelife yeah the best thing to do is talk to him about how you feel.

Coming from an oldie (30!) I was in a similar situation when I was your age...got engaged and everything. But everything about it felt wrong, which isn't the way it should be. My advise would be to ask yourself if you are happy, truly happy. Ignore the love side for a moment. I thought I was too but looking back years later you realise it wasn't, not when you experience it how it should be. If you feel you have to ask advise over this I'd say you've kind of answered your own question as if you were truly happy, deep down, you wouldn't need to ask advise. It isn't easy (took me four years to widen up) but you have to do what is right for you. I know you're only young but life has a way of slipping by and spending your days unsure and unhappy is a waste of a life. Be happy. Good luck x

Sorry should have been wisen up! Stupid autocorrect!

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