Boys Will Be Boys

A little birdie told me once that a girl and a boy can never be friends. I ignored the stupid birdie, and went on being lil miss congeniality to everyone and became oblivious to the difference between friends from the female and male gender. I was so convinced that that birdie was wrong, and there was noooo way my dudes would develop a crush on me. Wrong. Well I have two best-friends, whom I am closest to and who are guys. They are from two completely different cliques, and came in to my life ( okay dramatic much?) on two completely different phases of my life. Somehow, guess these guys had a telepathic power and decided to tell me that they fancied me at the same time. Honestly, I was livid, why- 'cos I felt so betrayed. Funny right? Thinking about it right now, it is something what every girl could hope for; dating a best-friend. Mind you, there is nothing wrong with these guys. They are both doing well in what they do, good looking, and two of the most decent guys I have met in my life. I just could not see myself with them, or feel those feelings . I.Just.Can't. Looking back, I am more comfortable trusting my friends of different genitals because they are straight up. Girls are less confrontational, but when they are it goes nothing less than bitchy. With guys, they are straight up, good or bad, it is taken and forgotten. Kaput. Hence, yes, these guys practically know my life story, and I can't handle that. I suppose I prefer to have some control by having some things withheld from a potential partner, thus if I have someone who could read through me like a clear cut glass, that just spoil the fun!( also I have this unhealthy appetite for jerks and players, who can blame me, their like junk food :/) It is always a pleasure to keep them guessing, and hey, there is nothing wrong to be a mysterious maven every once in awhile. And the sexual connection is a mayjah plus so its definitely a capital No-No to consider my little frog princes as dates! As long as their hormones ranges for some ladies humps and lumps, I am going to keep my limits to my girlfriends and give up hope on having straight guys as 'girlfriends' .