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To Understand: Bullying

sark
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Do you get bullied in the school and wonder if you actually deserve it?
-The answer is: NO.
No one deserves to get bullied.

But...
It's natural, even little children do it, they begin to practice in the kindergarten.

Why do people think they have the right to bully anyone?
-They're not better, but they think they are. Because their parents made them feel special about everything they've done...(oh, what a lovely poop, good boy!)

Why do you get bullied?
-You get bullied for everything what's different from the normal.

But what is exactly normal?
-The strongest personalities decide it, they have a look around and smell out who are the weakest. And those unlucky innocent will get bullied.

Tough luck, sorry guys, but what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.
Get on with it and live for yourself, you won't spend your whole life with them, and usually people who are bullying others in the school will be losers in their adulthood. You can believe me that, that's completely true!
And bullied will achieve more in life, they're used to try harder and not getting everything as soon as they want to.

So, no worry, there's still hope for you, I made it too, you will make it as well!

#advice #personal-growth #self-help #social-dynamics #teenage-experience
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Comments & Feedback (10)

adamwarne
adamwarne
Jun 6, 2012 at 3:20 PM

I was bullied until I was in year 10. Beaten up, teased, made fun of, had my glasses stolen a couple of time and someone even thought it was funny to break my nose with their foot. They are the people who go no where, that end up with nothing but a council flat on benefits with two unplanned children who catch the bus to go get their doll money. I hate the fact that I was bullied, but it has made me stronger, more sophisticated and more successful than any of those who used to bully me. One day I went into school and a group of 'cool' kids stole my book and set it on fire then continued to tell me reading is 'gay' and that books don't get you anywhere. Funny that. It got my 3A*'s and 6 A's. Bullying is disgusting but there isn't always something you can do. Stick it out and it will make you a much more fantastic person! P.s. thank you @sark! I am back too (:

glen
glen
Jun 6, 2012 at 4:35 PM

I was way to cool at school to get bullied ๐Ÿฑ

crowncottage
crowncottage
Jun 6, 2012 at 4:53 PM

@adamwarne good for you, turning things round ๐Ÿ˜„

sjw
sjw
Jun 6, 2012 at 4:58 PM

This is a really good message, I can't stand bullying in any shape or form it's not right to make anyone feel inferior...glad you wrote this blog ๐ŸŒน

michga
michga
Jun 6, 2012 at 5:05 PM

You go girl!๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜

KT77
KT77
Jun 6, 2012 at 7:47 PM

Bullying scars for life. Yes it makes us stronger but I know that there are things in my life that should be different but aren't because of what happened at school. I am a successful and strong person but still, sometimes I feel the effects.

kkdabest
kkdabest
Jun 6, 2012 at 9:11 PM

The ones that deserve to are the bullies themselves. But people aren't as low as them so they don't bother.

adamwarne
adamwarne
Jun 7, 2012 at 7:27 AM

Thank you @crowncottage, and @KT77 I am still very self conscious of my body and my looks because of it but it's something that will always push me to be better and look better. Although its in the past it doesn't mean it ever really goes. I am so happy with who I am now though, I don't know if I'd change what happen to me.

sark
sark
Jun 7, 2012 at 7:29 AM

@KT77 the effects follow you through your whole life. Still, I am happy with who I am now, I wouldn't change the past, I may would be an asshole now if I wouldn't have been bullied... ;)

crowncottage
crowncottage
Jun 7, 2012 at 7:33 AM

@adamwarne I think you probably would, but as you can't you are handling it perfectly by turning something so negative to your advantage. I hope the people who are so nasty think back to those times and regret it. You are also helping others by making them know you can overcome it and do well in your life. Well done you! ๐Ÿ˜ฝ

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