The GIFT & DRUG his love 2 you
Let's face it we have all been there, ladies you know the road I am talking about. The road of "attachments". We get attached to a guy and we say "I Love U" or some just get attached to a guy and "expect" of them.

And I'l tell you why.........

When you meet a man, now it a common issue for some ladies to be at a point in their life where they are insecure, they feel so low and down, probably there hearts just been smashed from the last guy and there now weak and vulnerable walking around with their hearts out on their sleeve. When your at a weal point in your life, a vulnerable point, we tend to be guided by Love, we sometimes look for a mans love, because a man can pick u up and love u in several different ways...ooooh we know when a man shows us love and affection we feel sexy, we feel attractive, we gain confidence, we gain charisma..... yes this all sounds so great....but as i continue we gain A GIFT.

A GIFT, many will be thinking the idea, my idea of a GIFT is one that is a present exchanged on a special occasion or bought for someone special, hmmmm, this GIFT we gain is slightly different.

This gift is something provided to you from a man to you, its a gift of confidence, attraction, sexiness, feeling good, its a gift of things we once had before we were vulnerable. This gift differs to the usual gifts because it is intabgible, it is unable to be touched or grasped and does not have a physical presence, its a spiritual gift, a man giving you confidence or anything alse that cant be felt or have phsyical presence is an spiritual gift.

A man gives you one of these, but what happens when or if he takes it away again, if you both split up or he loses interest, what happens then? huh ? Are you going to go back to being vulnerable, having no confidence feeling insecure ? feeling how you felt before you met him?

YES. many women, girls,ladies, females all tend to have this problem, a man picks u up makes you feel so dam good so dam secure so dam confident and sexy then he drops you back down and you loose everything.

BECAUSE you allowed this man to provide you with such a GIFT, WOMEN i speak and say over and over again, (read my love yourself blog). It is essential to love yourself before you walk into any relationship before you even allow someone to love you, you love yourself.

THE DIFFERENCE is between a insecure women that meets a guy who shows her love and a secure women that meets a guy that shows her love is a thin line.

The secure women walks in (relationship/relation/link whatever), confident, strong, independent and sexy, and when the man leaves she can walk back out confident, strong, independent and sexy as she gave that gift to herself, and you cant take back your own gift you gave to yourself...therefore it remains.

Now the insecure women walks in not confident, insecure, not feeling sexy or attractive, the man then provides the GIFT of that to her, the GIFT the secure women already has, the insecure women gets attached as she feels she needs him she needs him to love herself she needs him to be confident she starts to feel needy of the mans love so he can make her feel this extravagant way and that's also where ladies...the ATTACHMENT comes in. She feels attached as she feels needy, she allowed this mans love to make her feel secure and confident within herself so she feels she forever needs him, she starts chasing him down, running down his line (i been there, done that, left the t-shirt)lllooool. She starts to act irractic going crazy doing crazy things to get his attention as she feels she neeeds it, for this man had given her A DRUG of confidence, the women;s in need to feel loved and when she doesnt or no longer gets it she becomes weak again. Weak so weak she back on the road to vulnerability again back on the road even worse than she started out before she received this gift. she looking for LOVE A MANS LOVE for she wants the DRUG the GIFT of confidence again, as feeling confident is feeling sexy.

AND that is why I beg and ask you ladies out their, my ladies to please LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU ALLOW SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU, SO WHEN THEY LEAVE YOUR LOVE WITHIN YOURSELF STILL REMAINS.